Share Heart-to-Heart Hugs

Around the world, humans are hugging loved ones liver to liver. Instead, let’s embrace heart to heart! Here is the technique. It has long been forgotten, and we are working to remind the world of heart-to-heart hugs.

HOW TO HUG HEART TO HEART

Happy mother embracing and kissing her sonLean to the right. Bring together left shoulders to come together heart-to-heart, embrace one another, and share heart energy (add a kiss if you desire). When we hug heart to heart, our energy fields expand together.

Lead by raising your left arm and dipping your right arm. What happens when
you do this? In this time of creating a habit with the heart-to-heart hug, the other person may get thrown off balance, take a miss step, or stop in their tracks and beseech you with an inquisitive look.

If this happens, take a moment and explain that “this is a Heart-to-Heart Hug.”

njabuls-heart-to-heart-slowdanceLike a dance, this hug is choreographed by leading with left arm raised, taking a slight dip to the right, and embracing so that our hearts physically connect, sharing heart feelings; love, compassion, empathy.

SHARE HEART ENERGY—NOT LIVER ENERGY

This is a shift from our current habit of hugging with our right shoulders coming together. In this embrace we share the energy of our livers where our emotions of anger, resentment, and trauma are stored. No thank you!

Instead, let us come together in heartness, heart to heart. Connect and share appreciation with each other—hugging stimulates your nervous system, decreases loneliness, combats fear, increases self-esteem, defuses tension.

Open your heart to give and to receive. Linger in the embrace. Go through the moment of discomfort and allow your self to relax. Take a breath. Feel the gentle drumming of two hearts in a chord of accord.

HUG YOUR WAY HEALTHY

“We need 4 hugs a day for survival. We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth.” — Virginia Satir

A hug has an almost immediate impact on health, lowering heart rate and inducing a calming effect while also leading to an improved mood! Hugging is as beneficial for the person giving the hug as for the person receiving the hug due to the reciprocal nature of touch.

Your body produces oxytocin in response to physical touch. The neuropeptide oxytocin, released by your pituitary gland, is a naturally occurring hormone in your body with incredibly powerful, health-giving properties.

WRAP UP YOURSELF IN HEART TO HEART HUGS

So, hugging is an incredible way to bond with others and to boost physical, and emotional, health. Make an effort to hug the people close to you and get hugs in return! Make every hug a hearty heart-to-heart hug.

Managing Stress & Making It Work

Seven No-Cost Stress Busters That Are Worth Your Time

It is saddening that many feel the need to trip out on drugs in order to “cope” with the stress of their day. One single mom defended that spending her last $10 on her fix was important to give her a break from the stress of not being able to make ends meet, to feed her children and take care of them.

Oh, dear, perhaps your choices are leading to your inability to feed your children—$10 can buy a loaf of bead and a jar of peanut butter, and a jug of milk. That’s many meals …

The need to rejuvenate is fully understood. And supported. However, when you look at your options and your resources, there are choices that would serve you better. Spend the money on food to feed your self and your family. And spend some time to refresh your soul. Here are seven of the many ways one can “escape” with a little time, and no money at all.

MOVE. Get in motion. Go for a walk. Dance in your room. Stretch or strike a yoga pose. March in place. Do jumping jacks! This will elevate your mood and help your health. When you exercise, your body releases chemicals called endorphins. They interact with receptors in your brain to reduce your perception of pain. This is a key benefit of regular physical activity. Endorphins trigger a positive feeling in the body. That feeling is often accompanied by a bright outlook on life. Exercise also leads to improved self-esteem.

MIX IT UP. Get a new perspective. Rearrange your habits. Take a different route on errands. Straighten your closet or your room. Step back and ponder the patterns of your life—the daily routines that shape your existence. How could you tweak your routine to make your day more pleasant? A simple adjustment in a daily regimen can make a huge difference in your happiness.

MASTURBATE. Give yourself a hand. Love you. Escape in a moment of personal pleasure. When just thinking about sex, the brain releases dopamine, giving us a sense of pleasure. As we engage in sexual activity, endorphins are released, providing a sense of well-being. Learn to love yourself and you will be more open to love from others.

MAKE SOMETHING. Create a poem. Hum a new tune. Draw a picture of a daydream. Enjoy the journey as you manifest anew. Activities that put you into the “zone” slow your brain waves and stop the constant mind chatter. Whether it is cooking, painting, writing, sewing, gardening, photography, or working with clay, do something imaginative. Let it inspire you and lift your mood.

MEDITATE. Stop. Breathe. Ponder. Pray. And find a supportive mantra to repeat so you have this peace any time of the day. You can repeat a simple, neutral sound such as AUM for several minutes—or use a word or phrase with meaning to you (this can have stronger psychological impact). Close your eyes. Inhale through your nose. Exhale through your mouth. Ponder or say your word or phrase silently as you breathe out. When stray thoughts come by, gently release them. Continue focus on your mantra. Do this exercise for 10 to 15 minutes each day. Mindful self-compassion can relieve anxiety under conditions of chronic psychological pressure.

MELT DOWN. Cry. It can be therapeutic. It is one of the most cleansing experiences you can experience. Deep sobs open your chest and your diaphragm. This releases bound-up energy and helps to free your heart of muscular tension. A good cry will enhance oxygen delivery to your cells. And, crying stimulates release of neuro-chemicals in the brain that promote relaxation. Tears are also considered to be healing—evidence suggest that the nerve growth factor in tears has medicinal functions. In any case, a good cry feels like relief.

MEET UP. Get together with a friend. Swap stories. Laugh. Cry. Communicate your way to a brighter mood through connection. When we feel connected to another, we feel more calm. When a friend expresses support, sympathy, and compassion for your difficult situation, it reduces anxiety. This act of kindness goes a long way to relieve tension and provide a sense of comfort.

There are many more possibilities. Make time for yourself every day. Take a break from the info-stream and the constant press of info. Step back and look at the opportunities to serve your highest and best. Please share how you cope, productively, in times of stress.

 

BREATHE AWAY STRESS

If you’re feeling stressed or a bit anxious, or if you just need a pick-me-up, consider trying the following breathing exercise; it can help bring energy and clarity to your mind.

The first time, do it for just 15 seconds, increasing the duration by five seconds every time until you can complete one full minute. Always breathe normally between exercises (and don’t do anything if it doesn’t align with your Doctor’s orders).

  • Sit upright with your back straight, eyes closed, and shoulders relaxed.
  • Place the tip of your tongue against the bony ridge behind and above your upper teeth.
  • Breathe rapidly through your nose, in and out, with your mouth slightly closed.
  • Keep your inhale and exhale short and equal. Your chest should be almost mechanical in its movements—rapid, like air is pumping through it.

Inhale and exhale three times per second, if you can, keeping your breath audible. Ideally, you will feel the muscular effects of this breathing exercise at the base of your neck (just above the collarbone) and at the diaphragm (by your tummy). Put your hands on these areas to get a sense of the movements.

Breathing is the key to releasing stress and re-energizing your body—so out with the bad air, in with the good. Inhale…Exhale…that’s it…

image: blowing kisses by sharpiechick

Life Eternal …

body blessings

body blessings

The human body can do amazing things. It is fueled by thoughts, actions, and by food. To help live the longest life possible, nurture your self mindfully. Here are three key ingredients to a healthy lasting life.

EAT:

Drink warm water with lemon upon waking to awaken, refresh and prepare the digestive system. Consider the daily calorie intake, reduce it by a quarter (for instance, a 2000 calorie demand would be fed with 1500 calories). A lean body is less taxing to its organs.

Divide caloric intake among three meals and a snack or two so that you are nibbling throughout the day. Fresh fruits and vegetables are the best between-meal snacks. Lean meats and fish plus legumes and nuts are great sources of protein and essential fats. Fill up on leafy greens and sprouted grains. Indulge in organic produce whenever possible. Chew your food well—taste the fullness of every flavor before you swallow.

Sip water constantly. Infuse it with essential oil (lemon, lavender, orange) or tea to enjoy the pleasure of flavors. Enjoy an occasional sweet treat (preferably made with honey or natural sugar). Fuel this way and you will feel enlightened in many ways.

MOVE:

We are meant to move. To flex the muscles of our being in order to remain strong and alert. Walk. Run. Enjoy a sport. Be sure to balance cardiovascular conditioning, strengthening and stretching.

Yoga is a wonderful option and can help balance body and spirit.

REST:

Pause to reflect. Sit quietly and ponder. Take regular breaks from your work to let your mind float free of thoughts so it may open to enlightenment. Work toward getting adequate sleep each evening. Give your body the time it needs to repair and dream.

Treating your body with mindful moments will help you thwart destructive effects of stress and environment. And, in our dreams, we often work out the answers to the most pressing questions of the day.

Do enjoy a long and wonder filled life. Savor the eternity in each moment. Be grateful for the time you have within your body, here on Earth.

Food for Thought About Cancer

“Let food be thy medicine  and medicine be thy food.”

AFTER YEARS OF TELLING PEOPLE CHEMOTHERAPY IS THE ONLY WAY TO TRY AND ELIMINATE CANCER, THERE MAY BE AN ALTERNATIVE WAY …

1. Every person has cancer cells in the body. These cancer cells do not show up in the standard tests until they have multiplied to a few billion. When doctors tell cancer patients that there are no more cancer cells in their bodies after treatment, it just means the tests are unable to detect the cancer cells because they have not reached the detectable size.

2. Cancer cells occur between 6 to more than 10 times in a person’s lifetime.

3. When the person’s immune system is strong the cancer cells will be destroyed and prevented from multiplying and forming tumors.

4. When a person has cancer it indicates the person has multiple nutritional deficiencies. These could be due to genetic, environmental, food and lifestyle factors.

5. To overcome the multiple nutritional deficiencies, changing diet and including supplements will strengthen the immune system.

6. Chemotherapy involves poisoning the rapidly-growing cancer cells and also destroys rapidly-growing healthy cells in the bone marrow, gastro-intestinal tract etc, and can cause organ damage, like liver, kidneys, heart, lungs etc.

7. Radiation while destroying cancer cells also burns, scars and damages healthy cells, tissues and organs.

8. Initial treatment with chemotherapy and radiation will often reduce tumor size. However prolonged use of chemotherapy and radiation do not result in more tumor destruction.

9. When the body has too much toxic burden from chemotherapy and radiation the immune system is either compromised or destroyed, hence the person can succumb to various kinds of infections and complications.

10. Chemotherapy and radiation can cause cancer cells to mutate and become resistant and difficult to destroy. Surgery can also cause cancer cells to spread to other sites.

11. An effective way to battle cancer is to STARVE the cancer cells by not feeding it with foods it needs to multiple.

  • Sugar is a cancer-feeder. By cutting off sugar it cuts off one important food supply to the cancer cells. Note:Sugar substitutes like NutraSweet, Equal, Spoonful, etc are made with Aspartame and it is harmful. A better natural substitute would be Manuka honey or molasses but only in very small amounts. Table salt has a chemical added to make it white in colour. Better alternative is Bragg’s aminos or sea salt.
  • Milk causes the body to produce mucus, especially in the gastro-intestinal tract. Cancer feeds on mucus. By cutting off milk and substituting with unsweetened soy milk, cancer cells will starved.
  • Cancer cells thrive in an acid environment. A meat-based diet is acidic and it is best to eat fish, and a little chicken rather than beef or pork. Meat also contains livestock antibiotics, growth hormones and parasites, which are all harmful, especially to people with cancer.
  • A diet made of 80% fresh vegetables and juice, whole grains, seeds, nuts and a little fruits help put the body into an alkaline environment. About 20% can be from cooked food including beans. Fresh vegetable juices provide live enzymes that are easily absorbed and reach down to cellular levels within 15 minutes t o nourish and enhance growth of healthy cells.

To obtain live enzymes for building healthy cells try and drink fresh vegetable juice (most vegetables including bean sprouts) and eat some raw vegetables 2 or 3 times a day. Enzymes are destroyed at temperatures of 104 degrees F (40 degrees C).

e. Avoid coffee, tea, and chocolate, which have high caffeine. Green tea is a better alternative and has cancer-fighting properties. Water is essential— best to drink purified water, or filtered, to avoid known toxins and heavy metals in tap water. Distilled water is acidic, avoid it.

12. Meat protein is difficult to digest and requires a lot of digestive enzymes. Undigested meat remaining in the intestines will become putrified and leads to more toxic buildup.

13. Cancer cell walls have a tough protein covering. By refraining from or eating less meat it frees more enzymes to attack the protein walls of cancer cells and allows the body’s killer cells to destroy the cancer cells.

14. Some supplements build up the immune system (IP6, Flor-ssence, Essiac, anti-oxidants, vitamins, minerals, EFAs etc.) to enable the body’s own killer cells to destroy cancer cells. Other supplements like vitamin E are known to cause apoptosis, or programmed cell death, the body’s normal method of disposing of damaged, unwanted, or unneeded cells.

15. Cancer is a disease of the mind, body, and spirit. A proactive and positive spirit will help the cancer warrior be a survivor.

Anger, unforgiving and bitterness put the body into a stressful and acidic environment. Learn to have a loving and forgiving spirit. Learn to relax and enjoy life.

16. Cancer cells cannot thrive in an oxygenated environment. Exercising daily, and deep breathing help to get more oxygen down to the cellular level. Oxygen therapy is another means employed to destroy cancer cells.

freshFood for Thought and for Health.

4-Hour Body: Tim Ferriss

4-Hour Body: Tim Ferriss (excerpt):

Tim Ferriss says that by following the diet outlined in The 4-Hour Body you can lose up to 20 pounds in 30 days. The eating plan is described as the “Slow-Carb Diet” and basically involves the intake of lean proteins, legumes and green vegetables.

Five simple rules are presented for dieters who are looking to reduce their level of body fat.

  1. Avoid “white” carbohydrates. The following foods are to be avoided with the exception of up to 30 minutes after a strength workout: bread, rice (including brown), cereal, potatoes, pasta, tortillas, and fried food with breading.
  2. Eat the same meals over and over again. According to Ferriss the most successful dieters, regardless of whether their goal is muscle gain or fat-loss, have limited variety in their meals. You can eat as much as you like but you should restrict yourself to three or four meals and repeat them.
  3. Don’t drink calories. Milk, soft drinks and fruit juice should be avoided. With the exception of red wine, alcohol consumption is not permitted.
  4. Don’t eat fruit. Says Ferriss, “Humans don’t need fruit six days a week, and they certainly don’t need it year-round. 4-Hour Body says if your ancestors were from Europe, for example, how much fruit did they eat in the winter 500 years ago?”
  5. Take one day off per week and go nuts. Dramatically increasing your calorie intake once a week increases fat loss by preventing the metabolic slowdown that often occurs with long-term calorie restricted diets.

In addition to dietary recommendations the 4-Hour Body includes information about a range of subjects related to the body. Tim Ferriss suggests that you don’t read the 4-Hour Body from start to finish but instead pick the chapters that interest you and select just one appearance goal and one performance goal to start.

Recommended Foods

Egg whites, chicken, grass-fed organic beef, pork, fish, lentils, black beans, pinto beans, red beans, soybeans, spinach, asparagus, peas, broccoli, green beans, cauliflower, sauerkraut, tomatoes, avocados, red wine.

Sample 4-Hour Body Meal Plan

Breakfast

Scrambled egg whites with one whole egg
Black beans and mixed vegetables

Lunch
Chicken thigh, black beans and mixed vegetables
Dinner

Grass-fed organic beef, lentils and mixed vegetables
1 glass red wine

Mindful Eating

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& This advice from MeQuilibrium.

Eat mindfully.

When you aren’t aware of what you’re eating, you tend to eat a lot more—and enjoy it a lot less. Try slowing down and tuning in at mealtime, and you’ll not only reduce the negative effects of stress, but ease digestion, heighten your senses, and even eat less.

What to do: Put everything you want to eat on your plate, rather than skimp and go back for seconds. Turn off the TV; put away the phone. Take a few deep breaths before diving in. Tune in to the appearance, textures, and flavors of your food.

If you’re eating with friends or family, pace yourself with the slowest eater at the table to slow yourself down.

Get more good fats.

Don’t be afraid of fats! Contrary to what you may think, fats don’t make you fat, but are necessary for healthy brain function and heart health, sustained energy, and the absorption of important fat-soluble vitamins and minerals. Include more healthy fats in your diet.

What to do: Snack on healthy plant-based fats like those found in nuts, nut butters, and avocados. Use healthy oils in your cooking: olive, canola, and sunflower oil. Eat fatty fish like salmon, sardines, and anchovies. Take an omega 3 supplement.

Detox your drinks.

Skip the bottled, sugary, caffeinated beverages and drink only water today. Hydrating often can keep you alert and your skin looking great, and even help with calorie control.

What to do: Invest in a good glass pitcher or bottle to keep on your desk all day. Add cucumber, mint, and lemon or lime for flavor. Drink sparkling water with a splash of pomegranate or grapefruit juice (consider a Sodastream machine which turns tap water into bubbly water.)

Take a culinary adventure.

In a food rut? Stop by your local farmer’s market. Fresh, locally grown produce is not only great for your health, but can add a little zing to your same old, same old.

What to do: Let your senses guide you. What looks inviting and healthy and delicious? Buy what appeals to you and you can find a recipe later. Buy something (fairy eggplants, or a different Asian green) that you’ve never seen or tried before.

Talk to the farmers and growers. These people know their produce inside and out. Ask some questions about how to use or prepare foods and you’ll leave with new insight and a recipe or two. Take home your new foods and enjoy (sooner the better). You’ll feel great that you bought something that supports local growers and your health at the same time.

Get more magnesium.

Magnesium is a mineral that’s abundant in our bodies; it plays a vital role in our stress response system. Consuming the right amount of magnesium can help restore optimum levels and calm and energize you.

What to do: Talk to your doctor about having your levels checked; he or she may recommend a supplement. Up your intake with these natural magnesium-rich sources:

  • beans
  • dark leafy greens
  • grains like barley
  • millet
  • buckwheat
  • nuts
  • shrimp
  • oyster
  • halibut

Bring your lunch.

When you don’t plan for lunch, you may forget to eat it altogether—and end up eating something less than healthy out of desperation. Pack a healthy meal and you’re sure to sustain your energy throughout the day.

What to do: Pack your lunch the night before. Put a portion of your dinner aside for tomorrow to take with you the next day.

Throw it over some greens. If you had cooked salmon for dinner, save a portion in the fridge. The next morning, put it over some salad greens and you have a fancy chilled salmon salad that would normally cost you $15.

Try a sushi sandwich. For a low-calorie, nutrient-dense option, roll a few slices of turkey with some avocado and mustard in a nori seaweed wrap and you’ve got a lean, low-carb sandwich.

Clean out your cupboard.

Eating healthier starts with what’s in your cupboard. So, clean it out and replace it with healthier alternatives and you’ll have what you need on hand to eat well, every day.

What to do: Toss: Old oils (especially the ones that smell rancid—and trust us, you’ll know). Replace with: heart healthy olive or canola oil (look for cold- and expeller-pressed).

Toss: Old herbs and spices. Do you even remember when you bought them? Spices have a long shelf life, but if you can’t smell them, they won’t do you much good. Replace with: Fresher versions of spices you know you’ll use: cinnamon, cayenne, turmeric, and any others your favorite recipes call for. Skip the economy size and opt for smaller you can use up.

Toss: Packaged goods that contain: transfats, loads of preservatives, artificial sweeteners, dyes, and anything else that is nutritionally void and just taking up space. Replace with: Shelf-stable options that have a shorter ingredient list, lower sodium, and contain foods—not chemicals whose names you can’t pronounce.

Eat fish twice this week.

Fish is a healthy, lean protein and a powerful addition to your diet, as it’s lower in calories and saturated fats than other meats.

What to do: Opt for fatty, cold-water fish like salmon and mackerel to get a potent dose of heart-healthy omega 3s. Try anchovies in your pasta or sardines over brown rice for lunch or dinner, or toss some shrimp into a stir fry.

Widen your net. Eating a wide variety of fish can help reduce exposure to environmental contaminants, as can eating smaller fish (think anchovies versus swordfish, which has a higher concentration of mercury). Try some you haven’t before, like herring or smoked trout or kippers, which are available at most supermarkets.

Have a smoothie for breakfast.

Skip the bagel and coffee, and front-load your day with healthy fruits and veggies instead for energy-boosting nutrients with lower calorie counts while avoiding the sugar crash.

What to do: Smoothie recipes abound online, or you can experiment with a few of your favorite ingredients. All you need is a good blender. Try:

  • Frozen berries, bananas, an apple, and some spinach (you won’t even taste it).
  • Throw in some flaxseed meal for healthy omega 3s and fiber.
  • Add some soy or almond milk for texture.
  • Blend until smooth, and take along with you!

Swap your snacks for real food.

We’ve been taught that snacks are their own food group and usually come prepackaged—but in fact, food is food, and when you’re hungry, you should eat it.

Skip the snack packs and instead upgrade your between-meal bites to include actual fruits, veggies, grains, fats, and proteins. You’ll sustain your energy and avoid the sugar crash.

What to do: Cut up veggies and hummus or tahini sauce. Choose a sliced apple with some almond or peanut butter. Have a small cup of greek yogurt with a few nuts. Enjoy a cup of soup with some cheese and crackers.